Archive - IN HOT PURSUIT OF PLEASURE

this is how not to hate dating

your ex probably isn’t evil, love isn’t a game, and you're probably going to get hurt

Nov 14 •

October 2024

why do you want to be the hottest girl in the grocery store?

on hot girl memes, ozempic, and why being hot is not meant to be pleasurable

Oct 31 •

pursuits #1: how to make a home from a rented house

A guide to creating a space that loves you back (for free and for cheap)

Oct 18 •

pleasures #2: underwear-as-outerwear or being-seen-as-being-loved

What if your attempts at vulnerability were never misunderstood?

Oct 8 •

pleasures #1: autumn, I guess

This newsletter exists because I believe two things: one, that you deserve good things, and two, that no one is coming to save you

Oct 2 •

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